Respectful, Kind Relationships (Primary)
Curriculum content:
1. How to pay attention to the needs and preferences of others, including in families
and friendships. Pupils should be encouraged to discuss how we balance the needs
and wishes of different people in relationships and why this can be complicated.
2. The importance of setting and respecting healthy boundaries in relationships with
friends, family, peers and adults.
3. How to communicate effectively and manage conflict with kindness and respect;
how to be assertive and express needs and boundaries; how to manage feelings,
including disappointment and frustration.
4. Pupils should have opportunities to discuss the difference between being assertive
and being controlling, and conversely the difference between being kind to other
people and neglecting your own needs.
5. That they can expect to be treated with respect by others, and the importance of
respecting others, including those who are different (for example, physically, in
character, personality or backgrounds), or make different choices, or have different
preferences or beliefs.
6. Practical steps they can take and skills they can develop in a range of different
contexts to improve or support their relationships.
7. The conventions of courtesy and manners.
8. The importance of self-respect and how this links to their own happiness. Pupils
should have opportunities to think about how they foster their own self-esteem and
build a strong sense of their own identity, including through developing skills and
interests.
9. The different types of bullying (including online bullying), the impact of bullying,
responsibilities of bystanders (primarily reporting bullying to an adult), and how to
get help.
10. What a stereotype is, how stereotypes can be unfair, negative, destructive or lead to
bullying and how to challenge a stereotype.
11. How to seek help when needed, including when they are concerned about violence,
harm, or when they are unsure who to trust.
- Learning and playing together PSHE Association KS1 lesson focusing on knowledge, skills and attributes
- Belonging and community: addressing discrimination and extremism PSHE Association KS1 lesson on similarities and differences, lower KS2 on different communities, upper KS2 lesson in stereotyping and extremism (membership required)
- PANTS resources for schools and teachers NSPCC Talk Pants lessons for EYFS, KS1, lower KS2 and upper KS2 teaching that their body belongs to them, how to identify body parts that are private, the importance of consent and how to seek help.
- EYFS friendship and bullying pack and KS1 and KS2 Friendship and bullying lessons from PSHE Association. At key stage 1 (three lessons), pupils learn about making friends, kindness, how to manage falling out, and what to do if they witness unkind behaviour. Lower KS2 (3 lessons): the value of friendships, overcoming challenges and how to respond to bullying behaviour. Upper KS2 (3 lessons): including others, communicating respectfully, the impact of bullying and how to seek support (membership required)
- Personal identity lesson pack (one for KS1 and one for KS2) from PSHE Association (membership required)
- A World of Difference Resources Teaching Visible Difference Free KS2 resource from Changing Faces